Day #38 & #39 Good advice

I haven't blogged lately. Not much has been going on with Trey but I have kinda been keeping myself busy trying to organize the nursery. Today, Chris and I went to a friends wedding and I have to say that it felt great to put make up on and get dressed up. Seeing our friends so happy on their wedding day really lifted my spirts. It brought me back to our wedding day and how happy I was. The priest gave little tid bits of advice and two pieces really struck me. One was about coincidences and how nothing is a coincidence. The other was when he said that the marriage and a relationship between two people must always take precedence over all, even children. He said that when the marriage takes 1st place that it will always benefit the family and how important it is for children to see their parents together and happy. I need to make this more a priority, especially right now with all that is going on. Chris had mentioned on the way to the hospital that all we do is eat, sleep, work, and go to the hospital. He said that he wanted to go to the movies. I have to be honest I really didn't want to go. I was tired and preoccupied with finishing the nursery. My girlfriend texted me and asked me to go to the movies. So, we went and I have to say we really needed it. It was great to spend time with another couple and just laugh and have a good time. Coincidence....I think not...God knew we needed it and it will make me a better mom tomorrow.